Hearing that a friend or family is navigating a new and difficult situation, can leave people wondering what the right things to do or say may be in the situation. It's ok to not have the right words. For Nash's family, it can mean a lot to send a message of support via a card, email, or text. And one of the kindest things you can do is simply begin the message with "No reply needed." Let them know you are there for them, and that you understand that they may not be able to answer your reach out in a timely manner - or even at all. Challenging medical situations can leave caregivers with very little energy and capacity. But knowing you are surrounding them with love and support can go a long way. The Olsons have supported so many people, and now is a wonderful opportunity to reflect that back to them. Thank you!
In the days immediately following a new and serious medical diagnosis, friends and family often reach out and say kind things such as "let me know what you need!" However, in the blur of overwhelm, it can be hard to even know what to ask for as the situation is new and life-changing all at once. Now that the Olsons have had a few weeks to start to adjust to the new "not-normal" routine, they have been able to see where there are gaps in coverage for their needs. This is why we have created this website, to offer a one-stop-shop for getting updates via linking to CaringBridge, and to continually update the list of most immediate needs. You can find ways to support the family HERE
Thank you!
Sometimes it can feel like showing up at a family's home, or when they are with their loved one in the hospital, is a great way to show support. While the intention is always good, surprise visits can be very difficult to navigate on top of everything else that is going on, taking the family out of its normal routine. Also, in the case of leukemia, and chemotherapy treatments, lowered immunity is an important factor for the family to keep in mind when being exposed to others. If you are hoping to visit with the family in person, please reach out to them first to see if it is a good time, and it can be very kind to say that if it is not a good time, that is perfectly ok. The Olsons appreciate all the love and support, and have to prioritize the needs of their family in the days to come.